Thursday, February 23, 2006

I don't know but I think I need a life. Have you ever been in those places where absolutely nothing that you do or spend your precious time does not make any bit of a difference; but it dosn't matter at all? Where your entire life just seems to be gathered up together in one place and then seems to amount to absolutely nothing? Someone looks at you and says; "So, what do you do with your time?". If you had to choose to go this way or that way and reveal your opinion and taking of the meaning of life, where this person looks in wholly at your thoughts on life, and depending on the person your opinion could potentially help or hinder their moral development. Also being a teststage for you in their consideration of your own standing in their respect. Now I'm not one to care of where I stand with someone elses respect unless I already respect them, and I try to respect everyone unless they deem otherwise, so you can see where I am sitting.

When you go about your life not caring who you step on, walk over, or just pass by you many times miss out on potentially life improving scenarios. I mean think about it, do you know where you are going to end up in say 2 years, 5 years, or even 15 years? I'm going to assume I'm talking to my age group or within 5 or so years in either direction. Many of you are thinking of what job you are going to have, the next instument to purchase, or what car to buy, and even what girl/guy to flirt with, maybe who your next boss is going to be. Which is where I come in with my point, when you talk with people who will help you out a long this road, eg. girl/guy to start a relationship with, the next boss, car salesperson, relitive, avarage joe, or some random person who might want to help you out. So many people just brush off the difficult person, give them filler opinions to get the subject off of you, but I've learned that if you are just a genuine person to someone and be relitively friendly it more often than not comes back to you.

For instance what you do to someone who dosn't seem to have any barring on your path can often times come back to haunt you in good or bad ways. If you meet this girl and then decide that it wouldn't work out and brush her off she's going to brush you off too. Many times it benefits you and the other person in the future even if it seems to be miniscule in reality, it isn't always. What say the other person gets to know you and meets someone who need this, and you can help them. But if you have no relationship how is that going to help you out or the other person? Respect is gained all the way around, progression, relationship circles, and just general happyness. I mean the other day I had my car cleaned out by the most unlikeliest bunch, what can be wrong about that? Also one day a friend of mine told this family that I would be a great candidate for house sitting for the, and when I was in the middle of moving and had to sleep on a couch for 3 weeks 2 of those weeks I spent house sitting and sleeping on a big king-sized bed. And no this whole thing isn't about just being nice to eachother and equality, it's about being careful what you say to someone, don't just brush off unlikely ideas, I mean look at the hoola hoop, that was a multi-million dollar idea and what was it? It was a rediculous plastic ring--sheesh!

I don't know if what I say is going to help anyone or maybe just to help myself, but it's always better to be nice to someone and not be negitive because being negitive just puts you in a bad and depressing place. So go out and say howdy to someone you don't really want to talk to. Give them a cookie, and don't spit in it this time.

Signing out.

1 comment:

Ben Alpha said...

As always my friend... truly well spoken.
Alpha